You want me to cum in your ass?

Play Safe. We’ve always heard that. And we know we should. And we’ve learned of the horrors of gonorrheae, syphilis, clamydia and god forbid the HIV virus. And then there’s crabs (I’ve had the darned things twice – from the same guy I realized later). But then again I see men not playing safe all the time. And keeping in line with my true hypocriticial self, I’m going to admit I have not played it safe 2 times in my life. Okay, so in percentage terms, that figure is a tiny fraction of my sexual experiences, but that tiny fraction is enough to kill me right?

So what is this fascination with barebacking? Indian context (especially good ol’ Jaipur context) – many guys don’t have the BALLS to buy condoms. And then lube is a totally different story… though we’ll cover that in another blog. But I’m not going to go into the whole ‘the guy who can’t dare to buy a condom because he’s shy’ thing. What I am going to go into is this whole ‘raw pleasure’ thing.

Now when it comes to gay porn, I have TONNES of it. I mean literally. I’m about to alphabetize and sort it into country-wise folders now… yeah, that much! So anyways, anyone who knows a bit of the gay porn industry will know the big player’s like Falcon, TitanMedia, Etc. and then there are the even more sinful videos with barebacking – I mean, cumming on your face, creamy facials, slurping, snowballing, shooting inside the ass and … does that turn you on? Even if it does at some subliminal level, therein lies the problem. It turns me on.

And it’s scary. I’ve always been able to distinguish between reality and fantasy but obviously the actors in Treasure Island Media and many Eurocreme videos have not. Of course it’s irresponsible but wherever there is some market and some scope of making money, some man (read some gay man here) will exploit it to make money. So it comes down to individual choice and one’s own resistance then. As in the resistance of the gay man when it comes down to some sexual activitiy? – boy, we’re doomed.

And since monogamy is almost entirely non-existent amongst us fags, we have a big problem.

Play safe darlings. It’s too damn important. Reserve those barebacking sessions for after you’re sure you’re with the one – yup, just like some determined 26 year old Indian lady preserving her virginity till after marriage. But till then, play safe.

On a different note, I once messed with this guy who out condoms on to give a blowjob. Okay – now technically he’s being playing by the rules, but err, I wasn’t too keen on sucking on plastic. Anyways, lemme end this with a bit of irrelevant gossip about the same guy.

After much ado about how we were going to do the horizontal mamba (who was going to be the fucker and who the fuckee – Okay, top and bottom), I finally allowed him and in less than 30 seconds he was done.

“You enjoyed it?” I asked him in an unequivocal voice.

“Yes!” He replied between pants, having just orgasmed.

I reiterated without missing a beat. “Well thank God one of us enjoyed it.”



And as for the guys who are too shy to buy condoms - guys - get some BALLS man! If you don't want the brown paper deal at the chemist's, go to a bigger retail complex and pick one of the shelf and bury it below layers of household supplies. I've done that dozens of times!