I met the sweetest guy in a sleazy London Sauna yesterday (at Pleasuredrome).
A Scottish electrician, he later confessed that he 'couldn't take his eyes off me' when he saw me. It was his second time with a guy and his first time at a sauna. And that was apparent by his innocent behavior (he tried chatting me up to pick me up) and in the way his fingers trembled as he explored my body, all the while mumbling how lovely I was.
Lots of sex and conversation later, he took me to dinner and dessert, and showed me around London (I never get tired of being shown around London) and no matter how much I persisted, he insisted he would pay for everything (and I felt really bad since I know he did not have much money).
He asked me how many guys I'd been with, and I'd said two. I later realized that he'd been asking me how many guys I'd been with in my entire life, and that I'd been telling him how many guys I'd been with only yesterday .... And for the first time in my life, I was sort of hesitant to tell him the number of guys I'd been with. Needless to say, his eyebrows rose for just a second before he smiled and brushed it off.
A genuinely nice guy, it's rare to find someone as sweet as him, especially in the crazy world of anonymous gay sex. And he even gave me an amazing massage.
Ah, well. Let's hope I bump into him again some other time in life.
I saw your post only today, and was impressed enough to take time to comment on it. Did you at least ask for and keep his phone number and address to keep in touch with him? Are you still in touch with him or did you lose all contact with him? It seems to me that you shouldn't have let go so sweet a man. After all, a good man is hard to find.(Didn't May West say a hard man is good to find?)
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